From the Northern Cape in South Africa. A very straight road that just keeps going into the distance, with rolling hills in the background.
  • The Trouble With Filters

    The Trouble With Filters

    Young. Old. Fat. Skinny. Tall. Short. Beard. No beard. Asian. White. Black. And now – man or woman? Filters are once again in the spotlight. Something that looks so innocous is in fact highly controversial. All dating and hookup apps allow you to filter in and out what you are looking for. The controversy lies…

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  • The Price of Loneliness

    The Price of Loneliness

    “He likes you!” “Tom gave you a ♥” “You’re popular today! You have had 3 visitors!” The alerts from my dating apps keep my phone pinging all day. Tinder, Badoo, Taimi, Growlr – they all have one goal: Get you to spend money with them. You would be surprised how much money you could spend…

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  • Help! My husband is on Grindr!

    Help! My husband is on Grindr!

    The story seems to always be the same: A woman discovers her husband is on Grindr. There is shock and disbelief. Does it mean your husband is gay? Not necessarily. Let me explain: The South African account ConfessionsWithLinda on X sometimes gets confessions from women who to their horror have discovered Grindr on their husband or…

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