From the Northern Cape in South Africa. A very straight road that just keeps going into the distance, with rolling hills in the background.

Author: DiscardedHusband

  • The Hookup

    The Hookup: I hook up for the first time Completely ordinary Friday night. Quite late. The TV is on, I have just loaded the dishwasher. Then suddenly, there it was. The distinct Grindr sound when you have received a new message. BiBoy19 says hi. Bit confused at first, I wonder what this guy wants. No…

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  • To hook up or not to hook up?

    A few weeks went by. It became clear things were really over. My husband had abandoned our marriage and our relationship, with no explanation whatsoever. I was heartbroken. My husband would never come back. I had lost the love of my life. I had to try and figure out what was going on, though. I hired…

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  • The beginning – I join Grindr looking for my husband

    No, really. That’s how it started. I joined Grindr looking for my husband. You see, I married my husband last year. He was meant to come live with me.  He never came, and completely shut me out. Telling my friends about this, they told me they had seen him on Grindr before. Not just recently,…

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