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My Regrets. My learning. Hope.
I married what I believe was a narcissist who had led a double life seeing another man behind my back for years. One day he just discarded me. That was five years ago and now I want to share what I learned along the way. Lwanda and I in happier times. San Francisco, April 2017.…
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Help! I’m co-dependent!
The 1999 film (now famously starring Ru Paul) “But I’m a cheerleader” portrays a girl who is your average All-American cheerleader – but also happens to like girls. “I get good grades, I go to church – I’m a cheerleader!” the main character Megan exclaims. However, following the discovery she does in fact like girls…
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Stay safe when using gay hookup apps like Grindr
So – how do you avoid ending up in some guy’s dungeon all tied up? How can you stay safe when using dating and hookup apps like Grindr, Tinder, Blued, Hornet and Romeo? NEVER EVER: Give out your phone number. Use Snapchat or Telegram if you want to chat outside an app like Grindr and…
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