From the Northern Cape in South Africa. A very straight road that just keeps going into the distance, with rolling hills in the background.
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    I really thought I had met the one. I married him. I thought we would be so happy together. Little did I know our seemingly happy relationship was to be destroyed by a deep dark secret, and I would be the subject of torment and emotional pain for years to come. The hotel room where…

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